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I've been working with teens and families my entire career and I love sharing the tips, tricks and tools I've learned along the way with other therapists. I'm always eager to share new ideas and regularly provide in-service trainings on Family Systems. I hope you enjoy and find some use for these ideas.

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Therapist's Resources: The Clinician's Store

Welcome to My People Patterns. This section of the website is aimed at clinicians and therapists who are looking for more tools and techniques for working with teens and families. Please keep coming back to see what's been made available as we're constantly adding videos or mini courses. 

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The Anger Iceberg

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The Feelings Wheel PDF

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Family Systems Training

If you're new to Family Systems Theory or just want to brush up on your Family Therapy Theory, this set of videos will show you how to create a 'Family Map' - a game-changer in family therapy work. 

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Building Rapport With Teens

When I train therapists I tell them that building rapport with teenagers is the most important thing to do. Here's some of my insights from years of working with teens. 

 

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Circular Questioning

Circular Questioning is a total game changer for anyone working with families. In this video and the course I will try and explain how I use it, why I use it and what to ask!

 

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NEW: Solve A Murder With Me Using Circular Questioning.

My brain is weird, I know - but I had this idea to solve a murder using this awesome technique to sort of demonstrate how much you can get out of it compared to linear questions.  

I love using circular questioning in my family therapy sessions and find I use in all the time, even when I'm not working systemically. This video is filled with strategies and examples that you can use in a session tomorrow and will really help you understand structural systems and the information you can get from just asking the right questions. I provide the formulas you need to think about how you would use them with your clients as I grill three suspects

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How To Use Circular Questioning In Sessions

Circular Questioning is invaluable to me in a family therapy session, and I wish I'd learned some of the tips and tools in this video and online course a lot sooner. When you can introduce circular questioning to a session from the very first meeting, you can begin to understand some of the complex patterns that support and exacerbate the presenting problem.

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Building Rapport With Teens:

Here are some of the tools and skills we have to offer if you're new to working with teens or looking to build rapport with your adolescent clients.

Building Rapport:

The Family Portrait Activity

Get a rich and detailed understanding of family dynamics with this tool.

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Building Rapport:

By Understanding Anxiety

Build closer relationships by asking the right questions about anxiety. 

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Building Rapport:

By Making Intakes More Engaging

Make intakes way more fun with this visual timeline tool.

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So much more than just worksheets

Don't get me wrong, worksheets are amazing and there's some terrific ones out there. Our tools and interventions are not just worksheets, most come with an explanatory video which often includes psycho-education or a demonstration. The PDF's that you download are also packed with bonus content such as 'process questions' or tips and hints from our experience using them.

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Family Systems Training: Step by Step...

Elevate your therapeutic skills with a structured, hands-on approach to family systems therapy. Designed for both new and experienced therapists, Family Systems Step By Step breaks down the complex world of systemic family work into clear, practical steps you can apply immediately in your sessions. What You’ll Learn: Master Core Family Systems Concepts: Understand hierarchy, boundaries, and family dynamics with confidence. Assess and Intervene Effectively: Learn how to use tools like circular questioning, family mapping, and systemic hypothesis building for deeper insights and better results. Real-Life Application: Oliver shares personal experiences and successful strategies from his extensive work with families in residential treatment. What’s Included: Practical Worksheets & Tools: Access downloadable PDFs, intake forms, and session guides to keep your work focused and effective. Step-By-Step Video Modules: Follow a structured learning path from assessment to intervention. Lifetime Access: Review the content anytime and receive future updates as the course evolves.   <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/fGwLrpVX8Jw?si=1v6PXycmjEopPF-P" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" referrerpolicy="strict-origin-when-cross-origin" allowfullscreen></iframe>

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